Choose which is their own problem

So, how to answer my students' problem?

I can only give him a choice, but the answer have two: one is the humanity, one is the individual. Choose which is their own problems.

If use our today's "man is the sum total of social relations" such a concept to judge his choice, of course, is a misreading. He with this concept is dislocation. But he dwellinghouse? He can categorically? If use existing knowledge system to answer, apparently he can't.

But he has such a kind of desire. That is wrong?

Humans today, has become the earth and the whole life world's largest number of danger, human needs is degressive. Will tell from this meaning, I appreciate a dink family, not may cause damage of single family (but it is difficult to).

More specifically, if not to hurt those determined family, I admire people not to marry, have been to their own lives.

Such answer, it is a kind of interests, but also want to give those "humanity" as "opposites," a kind of pursuit ego excuse.

How many years, I have been trying to retrieve belong to oneself that football, but don't know already very difficult.